Client Case Examples

Client Case Example 1
Trust, guilt, money and success

Chris came to me to try and find what was playing out in his unconscious mind that was getting in the way of him achieving the success he desired. He had several projects he was working on that excited him, but just as he thought about achieving them he felt a rush of doubt and fear run through his body. He suddenly had all these fears flashing through his mind about not being good enough or that he would never finish the projects. He had been using self affirmations to try and override these doubts and fears but they made no difference.

For the two weeks leading up to his session with me his left foot would start to shake and a burst of pain would run up his left leg when he thought about completing projects. These projects were very close to his heart and he had worked on some of them for over ten years.

What came through was a lifehood (‘past life memory’) where Chris was a military leader of a group of soldiers in the 1500’s where he experienced a horrific battle. It was a bloody fight with the enemy and he was the only survivor. All his men that he was responsible for had been slaughtered around him. He had survived because another body had fallen on top of him and he had been knocked out, and looked dead. When he woke up the devastation of decapitated bodies around him sent him into deep shock. His left foot had been so damaged that it was only just attached. He survived, and later lost his left foot, but he never recovered from the trauma of the situation.

When he died he died a broken man. He had made unconscious agreements with himself to cope with the pain. He felt responsible for the death of his soldiers and could no longer trust himself. He felt like a failure and guilty for being the only man left alive.

The grief and guilt consumed him for that life time. When Chris incarnated into this life time he still had these unconscious agreements playing out. (These are imprints at Soul level that needed to be healed.)

As we healed this other aspect of Chris, Chris realized that it was this part of himself that was quietly sabotaging his conscious efforts to finish projects and attract in money for what he loves doing. He was laboring at the time and tired of never having enough money. He could see how these themes had played out his entire life. It was like a part of him, his own power, he could never find. An inner power and ability to really trust him self and his own abilities had been absent. This wounded persona from the other life time had not been integrated.

If we do not trust our self to deliver and achieve the goals we set at the unconscious level it makes no difference how strongly we consciously feel we can do it. We may achieve the odd success, but there will never be any consistency or real growth in income. In Chris’s case he has now integrated this part of his consciousness to wholeness and it will not sabotage this life any more – the emotional memory and pain has been healed. When the ego is ready to surrender to Truth emotional pain and wounds in the psyche can be transformed very quickly. When you work at the Soul level (unconscious level) you have instant and permanent change in consciousness. When you identify the cause of any crisis, pain, illness, conflict or chaos t does not take years of therapy to heal and transform. In Chris’ case it took just one hour to help him release this memory and the pain in his left foot also went.

Client Case Example 2
Healthy relationships

Joan came for a session with the intention of leaving her husband. She was frustrated with him because he did not support her and she felt she had to carry the ‘load’ all the time, from earning money to looking after the home and their four year old child. Joan had a very strong dominant personality. This had given her the strength to achieve promotions at work but it was slowly creating internal burn out. She had been ignoring a deeper part of her Self that needed nurturing. She did not know how to self-nurture and allow in support. She had nursed her father when he was dying of cancer as a teenager and had then gone on to be the strong supportive person for her mother when her father passed away when she was sixteen. This strong dominant ‘can do’ persona had been her major driver in her life.

Now, in her forties, she was becoming resentful of her husband for not supporting her emotionally. After working through the deeper feelings and identifying the deeper part of her that felt neglected Joan realized that she in fact needed to attend to her own emotions and be more self-nurturing. I guided Joan with questions to a place of gratitude where she found this deeper part of her Self that she had ignored since she was a young teenager. It was a process of reconnecting her with this deeper part of her self and healing it. It needed attending to. Once we did this Joan went home and her husband was suddenly very supportive and more nurturing towards her. She called me in amazement two days later to tell me how loving and how good her husband suddenly was.

It was the internal changes within Joan that made the difference. Her consciousness had changed and was self-supporting and hence her husband was mirroring back to her the changes she had made within her self. (All love comes from within. It is an illusion that it comes from ‘outside of ourselves’. When we connect with love via our own hearts we can then feel love from others and love others. This wounded persona of Joan’s simply needed to be integrated and reconnect to her Higher Self – and her Soul – to feel love again.)

Client Case Example 3
Winning in sport

Michelle (not her real name) came to me to try and transform a limiting belief that was holding her back in her sport. She was a world champion in her sport and had competed at two Olympic Games. She had placed top eight at both Olympic Games but knew she was at least capable of a medal when she performed her best. She knew she simply had failed to rise to the occasion at the Olympics and do the best she knew she was capable of. She was frustrated in the knowing that she had the talent and skills but somehow she had a mental block that was holding her back. She had tried hypnosis and she had realized that she in fact had a belief that she could not win, even though there was no logical reason for this belief. The hypnosis however did not determine the origin of the belief.

When Michelle came to me we talked about the times when she failed to perform her best and I asked her to dig deep and try and identify the underlying emotion. After some discussion she realized that she had felt an underlying sadness during the Sydney 2000 Olympics, even though she could not work out why she felt this way. I tuned in to Michelle’s mind-field and soul story and received information about a past life she had lived. In this lifehood she had been a mother of two children during the Second World War. She was captured by the Nazi’s and taken to a concentration camp where her two children were taken from her and gassed. She then tried to live on in the concentration camp but the trauma from losing her two children was too great. She gave up all hope and the will to live. She passed away in the camp feeling tremendous guilt that she had not been able to protect her children and incredible grief about her situation.

This imprint at Soul level was still with Michelle when she incarnated in this life time. The wound has been so deep in her psyche that she has not been aware that it has even existed.

In sport it has held her back from winning the big events when it counts. It has also caused her to struggle to find her killer instinct at times and to really want to win. She has felt that she has lost the event even before she has started it. A sense of failure has been undermining her conscious efforts and rigorous training to achieve. When I told her about the lifehood she felt sadness but could not connect to the story directly. I told her to work with it over the next few weeks and to allow the emotion to come into her conscious awareness to be felt and released. She knew she had a deep well of emotion that she had been suppressing for several years yet she did not know how to understand it properly.

The sadness she has felt had got stronger leading up to our session and when emotions become stronger it is a sign that the wound is ready to come to the surface to be released. And with the release will come new perception, new inspiration and understanding about why she has felt a certain way and failed to rise to the occasion when it really counts.

In times like this an athlete can try and over-ride a feeling by focusing their mental energy. People who have strong mental energy can often achieve this by using their will to overcome any underlying emotions. However, it does not change the fact that the underlying emotion is sill in our mind-field and causing us energy depletion and sabotaging our conscious efforts to win. People who are ‘feelers’ will have more difficulty trying to override a feeling by using mental energy to remain focused.

When we suffer from deep sadness it zaps our energy and inspiration. Only when we find the origin of any emotion and underlying belief can we transform our results in sport and our lives. Once we released the energy of this past life wound Michelle went out and placed 3rd at her Sporting World Championships and 3rd at the Pre-Olympics. She had not had a top 5 placing in the major events for over 8 years.

Client Case Example 4
Ability to make guilt-free decisions

Robert came to me trying to free himself of tremendous guilt around wanting to leave his wife. He had been married for over thirty years and he had finally made a decision to listen to his heart and end the games that were playing out in his marriage. He had had affairs with other women whilst on the road for his work, and his wife had also fallen into having affairs. Their relationship had become more like brother and sister rather than husband and wife. They were civil to each other, but there was no real love and intimacy. It had become a monotonous relationship based on false loyalty.

When he was nineteen Robert had been dating Cathy for a few weeks and they both went out one night and he got very drunk. The next morning Cathy said to Robert, “Do you know what you said to me last night?”, and Robert replied “No.”

“You asked me to marry you” said Cathy.
“Oh, did I?” said Robert, “What did you say?” He asked Cathy.
“I said yes.” Cathy replied.
As Robert sat there, in shock, not remembering that he has asked her to marry him in a state of inebriation his response was, “Well, OK then.”

So they got married. Two months later Robert had to go away for considerable time on business. When he came home they had children and he just got on with his life and being the provider for the family. This unconscious agreement of marriage was based on obligation and guilt, not love. Being a man of keeping his word, he felt obligated to Cathy to marry her. This is common in his generation. They had many great times and have happy kids; however unconditional love and intimacy never developed between them.

There was a love and caring between the two, but this was not enough to keep the relationship going once the children were all grown up. Once Robert released this unconscious contract of obligation to Cathy he felt so at peace and free to leave her, allow himself to move on, and her to find love with another person. Once he did this, and went home, she had no resistance to him leaving and they were able to have an amicable settlement. "I can't believe it. Finally I have no more fear! Unbelievable." said Robert after the session.

Client Case Example 5
How past life wounds affect this life and ability to have loving relationships

Kate came to see me about an extreme loneliness she was feeling. Not only did she have incredible loneliness she also had tremendous fear that she would never find a man to love her. She was single at the time and had fallen into despair that perhaps she would spend the rest of her life single and alone.

When Kate came to see me I got her to fully express to me what emotions were coming up. These emotions were very strong and were ready to be released. Kate kept saying that she could not understand why she had such an incredible fear. There was no logical reason for the fear she felt. I tuned into her Soul Story and a past life (lifehood) memory came through.

In the 1880’s she was a maid in a large manor house in England. She worked there in the house and kitchen for a wealthy family. She was single and never married in this life time. But what lay beneath this memory was an even deeper memory. Kate had been raped by the local doctor who used to come and visit this family. He pinned Kate in the parlor at the back of the kitchen and raped her. He covered her mouth so no one could hear her screams. This doctor felt he was entitled to do such an act. This traumatized Kate and she never ever said anything to anyone. It was a taboo subject and she was terrified of losing her job so she remained silent. She lived out this life as a single woman on her own. She experienced extreme loneliness and despair.

In Kate’s current life this memory was still very real and was playing out for her in a big way. Kate had also experienced problems with her uterus and menstrual cycle. She suffered tremendous pain when she had her periods and would break out in a rash in the vaginal area that she never understood why. When the feminine is attacked – such as rape, it is our feminine organs that respond to the attack. So in Kate’s case she had several physical problems in this life that stemmed from this past life memory – an imprint on her consciousness. It only took an hour to release the memories from Kate’s energy field (consciousness). Her body shook and she shivered as I helped her to release the pain. In one hour she felt incredibly grounded and at peace with her self. I sent her home to have a big sleep and allow her body to rest for a day. A week later I called her to check in and see how she was. All was fine and she no longer felt any fear about being on her own. When the wound is ready to be healed the healing process can be very quick.

Client Case Example 6
Attracting in a certain type of partner

Linda's first and second husband would physically beat her up. This abuse lasted a long time. When her eldest son was old enough he also would physically beat his own mother. Linda came to our program and did some one on one coaching. In the sessions we discovered a deep past life wound of emotional abuse and extreme abuse of the 'feminine'. Linda had such a theme of abuse in her own soul story that she had re-created it all over again in this life time. During the sessions we were able to heal these deep wounds in the psyche. Linda was finally able to stand up for herself and had the courage to leave her partner. Within three months Linda was having a positive and happy relationship with a man who respected her and looked after her. She had lived with abusive partners for 30 years and not understood why she kept 'attracting' in a certain type of male. After attending our program she was able to finally understand why she had attracted these abusive partners and how to change her life. Everything lay deep in Linda's unconscious mind. It was a complex soul theme that needed healing at the unconscious level. Her rational/intellect had no idea what was playing out until I could connect Linda with her own Soul story, so she could access her truth and heal it.

Client Case Example 7
Increasing company income and learning the art of conscious manifestation

Bill came to our Brave Heart Leadership Program and had some one on one sessions. In two months Bill was able to win major import contracts by having successful negotiations with Chinese investors and triple his turnover. After learning the principles and techniques at the Brave Heart Leadership Program he was able to be stress-free and relaxed about making big decisions. He was able to let go of trying to control his life and simply enjoy his life. In business he was able to 'attract' in the right people at the right time and win the contracts that he did not think were possible. He learned how to be 'magnetic' and he also was able to develop a closer and more loving relationship with his daughter.

Client Case Example 8
Physical pain and illness caused by the bleed through effect of a past life wound

When David came to me for a session he had been through 7 years of chaos. He had experienced several past lives come up for healing and had dealt with much Astral influence. Over time he had learned how to deal with it but he still had incredible pain down his legs and lower back. In fact his legs would often feel numb. He had not been able to work full time for over a year because of the pain. He had sought the help of over 100 healers, practitioners and doctors and yet he still seemed to have a lot of Astral chaos and pain. All the medical tests showed nothing was wrong with him and no doctor could explain why he had this pain.

I tuned in and a major lifehood (past life) wound came through. He had been a woman during the time of the Catholic Inquisition. In this life she was running as fast as she could away from a man with a large sword. This man killed her by slicing her in half. It was a horrific way to die. She had been sliced from one side of her body to the other, right where her navel was. Her upper torso lay on the ground separate from her lower torso. In shock she stood above her body not knowing what to do. This is quite common for the spirit to go into shock when they are killed so violently. This aspect of David was still stuck in pain in the Astral Plane in this life. This is still happening now in David's hologram. (See my article on 'Why the Secret May not be working for you' to understand the nature of time. All time is simultaneous.)

I integrated this aspect of David at Soul level. (Sent this part of him to the Light) and then rebalanced/recalibrated David's energy field by re-anchoring this aspect and his energy field into the earth. This took over an hour to balance as his entire field had been carrying this wound for some time. As a result David's physical pain disappeared and he was able to have a coherent energy field (aura) which meant he no longer had problems with Astral influence.